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Dianne Thornton

Dianne Thornton

May 19, 2016 · 7 Comments

Have You Placed God In The Friend-Zone?

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Is your relationship with God stifled? Do you sense that you aren't accomplishing all God wants you to? Maybe you've placed God in the friend-zone.

Not too long ago one of my daughters was telling me about a series of texts she had with a boy who had a serious crush on her. She made it clear that she liked him very much—as friends—but only friends. He didn’t quite get the message. When she didn’t respond to his persistent wooing, she eventually texted him, “Do you need me to walk you back to the friend-zone?”

Is your relationship with God stifled? Do you sense that you aren't accomplishing all God wants you to? Maybe you've placed God in the friend-zone.

This is another teenage idiom I hear quite often. The friend-zone is a dreadful place. When someone you have feelings for puts you in the friend-zone, there you stay—with no way out. One person defines the parameters of the relationship. The other is often left alone.

We can do this in our relationship with God, too. When we put God in the friend-zone, we place limitations on our relationship with Him.

God in the Friend-Zone

We cannot place limitations on God, but we can place limits on what we allow God to do in our lives.

We miss out on the relationship! One of the main reasons Jesus came was so we could experience a meaningful and fully-satisfied life.

The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life. (John 10:10).

God understands us and our circumstances better than anyone else (Psalm 139). He is always available with faithful love and help when we need it.

Your unfailing love, O Lord, is as vast as the heavens; your faithfulness reaches beyond the clouds … How precious is your unfailing love, O God! (Psalm 36:5,7).

We miss the promptings of the Holy Spirit.

  • We may miss the blessing of meeting someone else’s needs!
  • We can’t discern truth from error–which we desperately need in our culture.
  • We become numb to conviction of sin. I don’t like it when the Holy Spirit convicts me of sin. It hurts! It means that to make things right, I first have to humble myself before God and confess my sin. If I hurt someone else, I have to humble myself before them as well. But keeping short accounts with God and others allows us to live in peace!

Is your relationship with God stifled? Do you sense that you aren't accomplishing all God wants you to? Maybe you've placed God in the friend-zone.

We miss out on our purpose! God designed a plan for each of us–tailor made to fit our interests, talents, and personality. He wants us to accomplish things for Him that only we can.

Still, we hold back. We don’t really believe that God is who He says He is.  We don’t really believe that He loves us and will truly forgive us. Maybe we are afraid that He’ll ask us to do something that seems too big for us. (He probably will … but keep reading!)  Worst of all, maybe we don’t want to give up our pet sins, or the habits that hold us hostage.

We place God in a box of our own making. The reality–we are the ones in the box.

God Is Bigger Than The Friend-Zone

The Bible contains many passages extolling God’s immensity, His greatness, His transcendence.

Then David praised the Lord in the presence of the whole assembly:
“O Lord, the God of our ancestor Israel, may you be praised forever and ever! Yours, O Lord, is the greatness, the power, the glory, the victory, and the majesty. Everything in the heavens and on earth is yours, O Lord, and this is your kingdom. We adore you as the one who is over all things. Wealth and honor come from you alone, for you rule over everything. Power and might are in your hand, and at your discretion people are made great and given strength,” (1 Chronicles 29:10-12).

Great is the Lord! He is most worthy of praise! No one can measure his greatness. (Psalm 145:3).

Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. (Ephesians 3:20).

Think about it.

Greatness. Power. Glory. Victory. Majesty. All of it … is His. Everything in the heavens and earth … is HIS! His greatness is un-measurable. He rules over everything!

Aaaannnnd … All of that is at. work. within. us! Accomplishing more than we can possibly imagine! If–we let God work His plan.

For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. (Ephesians 2:10).

The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it. (1 Thessalonians 5:24).

Putting God in the friend-zone is like is like tying a tourniquet on the flow of His power in our lives.

However, combining God’s plan with His great power means–awesomeness! HE is funding your life purpose with His resources. Why in the world would we stifle that?

God is funding His purposes for me with His infinite resources of power and greatness!Click to Tweet

When we release the tourniquet, we allow God’s power to flow freely through our lives so we can make an eternal impact in the world! God will make sure that whatever He calls us to do, we’ll be able to do! It might be a little scary, but He will be with us!

Free of the Friend-Zone

There may not be a way out of the friend-zone between two mis-matched, love-seeking individuals. But God’s arms are always open. If you’ve placed God in the friend-zone and you want to rethink your relationship with Him, it’s not too late and it’s pretty simple.

Just talk with Him. He’s always listening. He’s not going to be mad at you and treat you badly because you weren’t interested in a relationship before. That’s what He wants with you!! He’s waiting for you to respond to Him.

As your relationship grows, you will experience a love-relationship like none other, and a rich, satisfying life filled with purpose!

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  1. SUSAN SHIPE says

    May 20, 2016 at 11:26 am

    I love that you get blog material from your girls!!!

  2. Deb Wolf says

    May 20, 2016 at 11:43 am

    This is so good, Dianne! I had not heard about the “friend-zone” but this is a great analogy. I don’t want to limit His power in my life. Afraid I do too often, but being aware is the beginning of change. Giving Him freedom in every are of my life. Blessings to you and thanks for this beautiful inspiration!

  3. Dianne Thornton says

    May 20, 2016 at 2:19 pm

    To stay aware of His promptings so we keep on growing! Thanks so much for taking time to come by!!

  4. Dianne Thornton says

    May 20, 2016 at 2:19 pm

    They keep me entertained and growing!

  5. Robyn says

    May 20, 2016 at 2:33 pm

    Great analogy Dianne! And so true. I love that you said He is not going to be mad, if we weren’t interested in a relationship with Him before. We have such a loving God!

  6. Dianne Thornton says

    May 20, 2016 at 2:43 pm

    Thanks, Robyn … Agreed! He is so tender with us!

  7. ~Karrilee~ says

    May 21, 2016 at 12:33 pm

    “God Is Bigger Than The Friend-Zone” So true… and yet I am so glad He calls me friend! 😉 Love this! xoxo

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⁠⁠
This person SPEAKS TRUTH FROM THE HEART. In other words, it's not just the words this person speaks, but the response to difficult words! I wrote the following in my journal:⁠⁠
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"A blameless person's speech is wholesome. She doesn't just not curse--she encourages. AND she accepts criticism without being critical."⁠⁠
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⁠
The Scripture focus for Chapter 3 of ENJOYING INTIMACY WITH GOD, is Isaiah 40, which holds many favorite passages, including:⁠
⁠
"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." (Isaiah 40:31, NIV)⁠
⁠
Isaiah 40 is lengthy, but oh, so beautiful. It was written to encourage Israel after her discipline (captivity in Babylon) was completed. God wanted them to know that He was fully worthy of their trust. ⁠
⁠
It is an interesting contrast. It describes man’s utter weakness—and God’s transcendence. But this God who is so other than anything we know, LOVES **US**. The God who made the universe, who holds the oceans in His hands, who never grows weary—is our friend. ⁠
⁠
Sanders shares the first verse from “How Great Thou Art.” It is fitting. ⁠
⁠
O Lord, my God, when I in awesome wonder⁠
Consider all the worlds Thy Hands have made⁠
I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder⁠
Thy power throughout the universe displayed.⁠
⁠
In what ways, as you move forward to serve our King, do you need to fully depend on God? ⁠
⁠
I've been on somewhat of a social media hiatus--working tirelessly with my husband on some much needed household repairs/updates. Finding my way and rhythm back into this special world is a bit overwhelming!⁠
⁠
Let's remember, God goes before us and strengthens us for all He calls us to do.⁠
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#DianneThorntonTX #DianneMicroBlog #MiniBibleStudies #FaithfulFollowers⁠
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#JOswaldSanders #EnjoyingIntimacyWithGod #HowGreatThouArt #JIPacker⁠
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Yesterday marked 30 years of loving this man!

According to tradition, the 30th anniversary is the Pearl Anniversary. I don’t know exactly why, but I surmise it’s because of how a pearl is formed inside an oyster.

A grain of sand, or some other irritant, finds its way inside. The oyster produces a substance that coats the irritant, eventually forming a pearl.

Irritants are plentiful in marriage. Tim & I have certainly had more than a few. Some of our own making, some we didn’t ask for. But God has been gracious and merciful to us. He has taught us how to love each other through them. He has taught us how to forgive when the irritant is something one of us did to cause the other pain. We are still learning. 

You could say love and forgiveness have formed in our marriage a string of pearls. 

There is no one else I’d rather walk this life with. Tim is God’s precious gift to me.

I love you, Sweetheart.

💞 What have you found that makes a difference in your marriage? That keeps you connected to your spouse? 💞

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Yesterday marked 30 years of loving this man!

According to tradition, the 30th anniversary is the Pearl Anniversary. I don’t know exactly why, but I surmise it’s because of how a pearl is formed inside an oyster.

A grain of sand, or some other irritant, finds its way inside. The oyster produces a substance that coats the irritant, eventually forming a pearl.

Irritants are plentiful in marriage. Tim & I have certainly had more than a few. Some of our own making, some we didn’t ask for. But God has been gracious and merciful to us. He has taught us how to love each other through them. He has taught us how to forgive when the irritant is something one of us did to cause the other pain. We are still learning.

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This is so beyond me. But I am a proud mama! Happy Birthday, sweet girl!! We love you!! 

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THIS GIRL AMAZES ME! She came over early so the Tim-Man could change out her tie rods. Well, the other day she purchased the right tools (including jack stands and a hydraulic jack) and replaced her strut and spring coil assemblies and the sway bar links ALL BY HERSELF!! Her daddy was SO PROUD when she showed him.

This is so beyond me. But I am a proud mama! Happy Birthday, sweet girl!! We love you!!

#diannethorntontx #girlscandoanything #proudmama❤️ #mustanggirl #stanggang
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Claudia and I put together James’s Christmas arrangement. Still missing him like crazy. Yet we rejoice that James is celebrating Christmas with His Savior. 

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#diannethorntontx #siblinglove #therewereneversuchdevotedsisters #griefjourney

Claudia and I put together James’s Christmas arrangement. Still missing him like crazy. Yet we rejoice that James is celebrating Christmas with His Savior.

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#diannethorntontx #siblinglove #therewereneversuchdevotedsisters #griefjourney
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HOLY FATHER, GIVE ME GREAT LOVE FOR YOUR WORD AND THE TRUTH IN IT.⁠
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May the Holy Spirit illumine truth as I read its pages. Teach me to use your Sword as my weapon against Satan.⁠
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Help me to study it well, hiding its treasures in my heart.⁠
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Bring to mind truth from Your Word for my needs today. ⁠
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In Jesus's Name,⁠
Amen!⁠
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Collecting Scriptures as we read God's Word can be a great help for when we face temptation. Writing them in a journal on an index card or a sticky note keeps them "at the ready" for when we need them.⁠
⁠
If you struggle with memorizing Scripture, I have a resource to help you hide God's Word in your heart:⁠
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The PSALMS Meditation Method is a set of worksheets that guides your meditation process so that you know a verse thoroughly, even though you may not have "memorized" it.⁠
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You can find it in my SHOP under "Bible Study Helps." (See the Instagram links in my bio.)⁠
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#DianneThorntonTX #DianneMicroBlog #MiniBibleStudies  #FaithfulFollowers ⁠#SwordOfTheSpirit ⁠
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#StandingFirmBibleStudy #ArmorOfGod🗡🛡#CharacterOfChrist #PrayerIsAWeapon #WholeArmorOfGod #Ephesians 610 #StandFirmInYourFaith #BeStrongInTheLord #NamesOfGod #ArmorOfGodStudy #standfirminchrist #newbiblestudy #SpiritualBattles #NameOfGod  #standfirminthefaith #fullarmorofgod #Christlikeness #Ephesians6 #VictoryInJesus⁠

HOLY FATHER, GIVE ME GREAT LOVE FOR YOUR WORD AND THE TRUTH IN IT.⁠
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May the Holy Spirit illumine truth as I read its pages. Teach me to use your Sword as my weapon against Satan.⁠
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Help me to study it well, hiding its treasures in my heart.⁠
⁠
Bring to mind truth from Your Word for my needs today. ⁠
⁠
In Jesus's Name,⁠
Amen!⁠
⁠
----⁠
⁠
Collecting Scriptures as we read God's Word can be a great help for when we face temptation. Writing them in a journal on an index card or a sticky note keeps them "at the ready" for when we need them.⁠
⁠
If you struggle with memorizing Scripture, I have a resource to help you hide God's Word in your heart:⁠
⁠
The PSALMS Meditation Method is a set of worksheets that guides your meditation process so that you know a verse thoroughly, even though you may not have "memorized" it.⁠
⁠
You can find it in my SHOP under "Bible Study Helps." (See the Instagram links in my bio.)⁠
⁠
.⁠
.⁠
.⁠
.⁠
⁠
#DianneThorntonTX #DianneMicroBlog #MiniBibleStudies #FaithfulFollowers ⁠#SwordOfTheSpirit ⁠
⁠
#StandingFirmBibleStudy #ArmorOfGod🗡🛡#CharacterOfChrist #PrayerIsAWeapon #WholeArmorOfGod #Ephesians 610 #StandFirmInYourFaith #BeStrongInTheLord #NamesOfGod #ArmorOfGodStudy #standfirminchrist #newbiblestudy #SpiritualBattles #NameOfGod #standfirminthefaith #fullarmorofgod #Christlikeness #Ephesians6 #VictoryInJesus⁠
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